Relationships That Bring A Catalyst For Change
- Divine
- Jan 9, 2022
- 8 min read
Distinguishing the Difference Between Connections That Lead to Negative Growth and Positive Growth
Over the next few weeks you will begin to review your relationships with friends, colleagues, and romantic partners as you ascend to the next plateau in self-development and self-growth. The most growth will presumably exist in connections where the individual acts as a catalyst for positive growth by mirroring or highlighting your inner demons and introduces you to a little shadow work. These relationships are meant to illuminate your petty antics, stubborn ways, and illuminate all of the things you hide from the world. In every connection you will experience a catalyst that either triggers you to change or inspires you to change. The best way to distinguish the difference between negative growth and positive growth is to be governed by three principles: the intent, the actions, and the impact. When you have a negative growth experience with someone, you will soon realize their ulterior motive was to leave you feeling discouraged by some traumatic or emotionally charged situation. Once you realize the falsehood of the connection, the impact may leave you feeling wounded, manipulated, or disoriented. This causes a negative impact and memory of your experience within the relationship. Although, the connection was meant to produce self-awareness, it also comes with emotional scars. Positive self-growth leads to connections that constructively inspire positive self-growth through structured conversations and expectations. These connections will exemplify true compassion and healthy boundaries. Additionally, your connections with these types of individuals are realistic and incorporate patience when working through disagreements. As you review your relationships be sure to work on establishing more meaningful and positive growth experiences for optimal self-development.
Aries ♈️ - From Blocked To Unblocked
Oh Aries, you've been feed up with someone for sometime and may have needed some space away from them, but don't you think blocking them was a little over the top? This week may start off with you identifying the cause of communication issues in your relationship. These issues can range from you feeling unheard to someone being blocked from calling you. Nonetheless, you will get the urge to clear the air with this person because you realize they're someone special to you. For some of you, you may need to reach out to a friend from the past to help you find the perfect solution to your problem. This person appears to be a homebody and is extremely wise for their age or they may be a spiritual teacher of some sort. However, after some much needed introspection you may realize this person has the answers you really need.
Taurus ♉️ - A New Chapter
What appears to be a mid-life crisis is really the beginning of a new chapter for you Taurus. However, this is contingent upon you solving a problem to an issue you may be having before it get's out of hand. The problem may be with a Fire sign or with someone who comes across as headstrong, a little self-centered, and impulsive at times. Which may be one of the reasons you find yourself wanting to take a break from this individual. Ironically enough, this so-called break you decided to take from this individual has actually inspired them to want to pursue the relationship even more. Just the mire thought of you detaching from the connection has triggered them into wanting a new chapter with you. Are you game?
Gemini ♊️ -Heightened Intuition
What are you doing Gemini?!?! You have been given a talent or a spiritual gift that will help you build the future you want with the person you want. So why are you doing more day dreaming and creaming then you are building and shielding your crops? How long do you plan on holding on to those intuitive gifts? The moment you begin to use your spiritual gifts to not just help others but to help yourself, you will begin to access a whole new level of happiness. You will also notice how much more impressionable you appear to others by using your gifts to better self unselfishly.
Cancer ♋️ A Divine Counterpart
As you undergo another spiritual awakening you may begin to realize how low vibrational your past lover's may have been now that you've connected with a real Divine Feminine or Divine Masculine. This is the type of connection that will force you to step your healing game up. So before you push up on them, make sure you have done your inner healing work and cut off those old relationships that bring unwanted drama. Once you truly invest time with each other you will see many different facets of this person. The good, the bad, and the bold! If you have not matured into your emotions this person may seem crass or highly demanding. However, if you have done the inner healing necessary to release old patterns you will appreciate this person's "No tolerance to bull shit attitude". Good luck and stay strong!
Leo ♌️ - Comparisons
Sometimes being compared to someone else is not necessarily a bad thing unless you're comparing a Leo with the big Ego to another person. Then you have a problem or do you? Leo don't take offense to someone comparing you to a colleague, family member, friend, or past lover this week. It may piss you off in the beginning to find out that they've been comparing you to someone else all along, but it actually benefits you in the long run. Whoever has been comparing you to others will soon realize you are the better choice. The real question is, will you want what is being offered after you realize you were secretly in competition for this person's approval?
Virgo♍️- Comfortability
The cost of comfortability may come at a high price of pain with a toxic relationship. Especially, if you have been in a established relationship with someone. This week you will begin to reevaluate the legacy you've built with your counterpart. Yes, you are comfortable financially but are you happy? If your relationship has cost you your peace, self-esteem, or emotional security then the price you're paying for comfort is too high. For some of you, this week you may be splitting up assets, discussing missing money, or going through a divorce of some sort. If some money does come up missing out of a safe or an account you may realize some one close to you took the money without asking.
Libra ♎️ - Receipts
The lies they choose to tell can be debunked with some sweet receipts but do you really want to go there? Some of you Libra's may be working on your image or reputation this week when someone either drops some major receipts on you or you drop some major receipts on them. Whoever the individual is drives a luxury vehicle and has been keeping some major secrets on the down low. In fact this individual has been hiding a relationship or their sexuality and it will soon be exposed to the public by a co-worker, employee, mentor, or student. For some of you, this may involve a fire sign or this may play out in Aries season. Whoever you're dealing with wants to keep you stuck or mentally bound so respond maturely to those receipts. Your reputation depends on it.
Scorpio ♏️ - Stolen & Sold
They were bold enough to steal your ideas, contracts, or partnerships but they weren't smart enough to clean up the evidence. If this is a work relationship or a boss they may have taken credit for your idea or project without giving you the credit you deserve. If you are a business owner, there is someone who is stealing from you and selling your ideas on to their clients. Whoever this individual is may have a black or silver phone case or vehicle. They are also notorious for fronting and playing mind games in hopes of making you feel small or defeated in your task and partnerships. Stop allowing others to take advantage of your work and start keeping your ideas to yourself unless you're under contract. Don't worry about them taking those ideas because they were actually incomplete and the individual will give up on the ideas soon. This is because they never knew what to do with the project to begin with so the jokes on them.
Sagittarius ♐️ - One-On-One
Healing from heartbreaks and disappointments are not always a group discussion or meant to be shared with the person who hurt you. For some of you a one-on-one connection with someone this week may open your eyes to powerful lessons in friendships and connections to past heartbreaks with romantic partnerships. If this is the case, take this information and allow it to transform and heal you from past traumas. Additionally, you will want to make sure you take advantage of opportunities to pass along helpful information by way of social media or through networking in small intimate settings. Beware though, once you release situations where you felt "different" or misunderstood, someone from the past will be pulling on you energetically first and then reappearing in your life next.
Capricorn ♑️ - Fix-A-Flat
Riding low or feel under pressure in your work sector? For some of you, you may notice the tire pressure is low in your vehicle this week or you may need to plug your tire unexpectedly. For others, this week you may realize how much more you have to offer the world than what your current career allows yet you feel stuck. During the middle of the week you may decide to take the day off or your vehicle may demand your attention around this time. Therefore, begin creating solutions before any problems begin to occur in your personal and professional life. If your tires are low or you need to fix-a-flat this spiritually represents the balance you either have or do not have in your life and the amount of control you have on the direction in which you are traveling. If it is the back tires then start working on past traumas outside of your control and if it is the front tires then prepare for some instability in the near future.
Aquarius ♒️- Heartbreakers
Are you messing with a Cancer or someone who had cancer placements in their third or fourth house? Regardless of what sign this person is, be careful not to find yourself heartbroken or emotionally manipulating them. Someone in this equation is a well accomplished Divine being who is healing from a third party situation where they were manipulated into believing they would be chosen. If you are connecting with this person I recommend you taking you time getting to know them and allowing them to heal so that they don't bring unresolved issues into the connection. If you are the one who experienced the heartbreak then take the time to heal first or you will become just as possessive of this person and the relationship will end like the last one.
Pisces ♓️ -Secret Greed
Are you questioning the person you've become or the person you've committed yourself too? Pisces, it may feel like whatever you do is never enough for someone you've made a commitment too. In fact, there have been times where you have placed this person's needs before your's against your better judgement and this week you're seeing how greedy they really are. It seems as though materialism has caused some type of rift between you and someone you no longer feel is your soulmate. Yet, you both hold on to this connection for some form of security. One person is holding on for financial reasons and the other is holding on out of fear of being alone. If you are in a relationship, I wouldn't be surprised if you and your partner have been sleeping with your backs to each other. This is because of some major secrets threatening to tear this already fragile situation apart. For starters, someone around you isn't who they claim to be or may be hiding secrets surrounding a child. Whatever the secrets are may just expose the greediness in an individuals character.
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